on my tmi tuesday post, bunny posted this comment:
What do we want to know about your wife? OMG - where to begin? Is she pretty, where did she go to school, is she better in bed than the rest of us, how does she like her eggs, does she want to go shopping with me on Saturday?
so i decided i'd answer. from this post forward i will use "tw" to refer to "the wife". not creative but it works.
tw is not what you would call gorgeous. she is pretty but not a knock out. i didn't fall in love with her for her looks. i fell in love with who she is. she is not petite. her favorite place to buy clothes is lane bryant catalogs and she isn't ordering the smallest sizes. she has big breasts, size 40F if i remember right. she has had 4 kids and to be honest, her body shows it. but i still love her.
she went to school in texas and is a teacher at a small private school. she teaches high school and is basically the second in command at the school. she likes the teaching but not the second in command part.
she is not the best lover i have ever had. in fact she is very selfish. she is more than willing to try new things but i do all the work it seems. very seldom does she initiate. even less am i the focus of attention. it is all about her. this bothers me sometimes because i'd like for her to want to please me. but i also enjoy making her beg me to stop too. this is probably the one thing i wish could be changed about her. is she better than the rest of you? that i'll have to wait to answer until a few of you have had sex with me. :)
she likes her eggs over easy. hey, you asked. as for going shopping with you on saturday, i highly doubt it. she hates to shop. that is why her favorite place to buy clothes is from a catalog. the one store that she frequents is wal-mart. and that is so we can do grocery shopping and everything else in one trip instead of having to go to multiple stores.
i have mentioned that she is suspected to be bi-polar. it runs in her family and she has been showing a lot of the symptoms. she is on meds for it and the latest dosages seem to be helping a lot. the good thing is that she realizes this issue and is good about accepting feedback on it.
this has been the longest post i think i have ever done. it doesn't tell you everything but it does give you some insight into tw. if you have other questions, feel free to post them. i might not answer them but you never know.
update: how's this for realtime? i smile too much wanted to know if i have ever told my wife that i'd like her to go on the offensive (i paraphrased). and the answer is yes. i've told her and she has said that she would. but words are not actions and she still hasn't. btw, we have been married for 10 years so i'm at the point where i have accepted it and moved on.